{"id":1624,"date":"2023-01-05T15:04:27","date_gmt":"2023-01-05T21:04:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/?p=1624"},"modified":"2023-01-05T15:04:27","modified_gmt":"2023-01-05T21:04:27","slug":"reframing-regret-from-hindsight-to-insight","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/2023\/01\/reframing-regret-from-hindsight-to-insight\/","title":{"rendered":"Reframing Regret: From Hindsight to Insight"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-modular-content-collection><h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Vocare<\/em> Spiritual Practice<\/h4>\n<h5><em>Vocare<\/em><\/h5>\n<p><em>Vocare<\/em> is an ongoing spiritual practice designed to help you discern and embrace your multiple vocations so that you can more intentionally live life on purpose. <em>Vocare<\/em> invites regular reflection upon values, openness, call, attentiveness, regret, and the experience of God&#8217;s presence.<\/p>\n<h5>Focus<\/h5>\n<p>You are invited to focus on your personal regrets by both naming and reframing them, and my so doing, nourish in a particular way God&#8217;s call for both your present and your future. Use the time between the guided questions for your own reflection and meditation. Bring to mind a circumstance or experience of regret from your own life. Is this a regret that still has you dwelling in hindsight, or is it a regret from which you now have gained insight? How has this regret shaped your life and its horizons?<\/p>\n<h5>Guided Reflection<\/h5>\n<h6>Opening Prayer<\/h6>\n<p>Help me, O God, to give my regrets to you and to go forward today, confident in your mercy. In the name of +Jesus, Amen.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>What life values are present for you in this regret? Are they your most important values?<\/li>\n<li>How does this regret invite or compel you to be open? How easy is it for you to be open to this?<\/li>\n<li>What voices are calling to you through this regret? Are these voices that you want or need to listen to? Why or why not?<\/li>\n<li>As you consider this regret, what holds your attention? Is this where you want or need your attention to be?<\/li>\n<li>What insights does this regret bring to mind for you? What do you do with these insights?<\/li>\n<li>Where and how in this regret do you experience God&#8217;s presence?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h6>Closing Prayer<\/h6>\n<p>Bind up the wounds of my mistakes, O God, and help me learn from them.<br \/>\nUse my regrets to give me insight into my choices and actions.<br \/>\nForgive me my sins and raise me to new life today.<br \/>\nIn the name of +Jesus, Amen.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/files\/2022\/09\/Reframing-Regret_-From-Hindsight-to-Insight.docx-1.pdf\">Downloadable PDF Version<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vocare Spiritual Practice Vocare Vocare is an ongoing spiritual practice designed to help you discern and embrace your multiple vocations so that you can more intentionally live life on purpose. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8561,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1624","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"acf":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1624","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8561"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1624"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1624\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1625,"href":"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1624\/revisions\/1625"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1624"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1624"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wp.stolaf.edu\/nourishing-vocation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1624"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}