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7 Ways to Successfully Cultivate Social Wellness for Life<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

What is social wellness?\u00a0 It is about nurturing ourselves, others, and our relationships. Social wellness consists of not only balancing our own physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health, but also actively participating as an interdependent piece of the bigger puzzle of humankind.\u00a0 Thus, even as we care about our personal connections, we also care about the greater good of society, including our communities and the environment.<\/p>\n

Social wellness involves openly communicating needs, feelings, thoughts and desires to those we trust, and actively listening with empathy when they share with us.\u00a0 It involves engaging in and enjoying positive interactions with other people in work and leisure and building and maintaining meaningful friendships, intimate relationships, and professional connections.<\/p>\n

To cultivate your habits of social wellness, follow these seven guidelines:<\/p>\n

Practice Self-Care.\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0Finding balance in life can be difficult at times, and we are much more prepared to deal with obstacles if we are in a good habit of practicing self-care.\u00a0 Self-care embraces basic needs such as getting enough sleep, bathing and brushing your teeth, eating healthy, exercising regularly, and avoiding negative coping mechanisms like smoking or over-drinking.<\/p>\n

It also includes using positive coping skills to manage stress, self-soothe and relax through fulfilling or creative outlets like hobbies, crafts, art, sports activities, hiking, dancing, and social interactions with friends.\u00a0 You may also choose to engage in activities that nurture you emotionally, mentally, or spiritually, such as meditation, yoga, therapy, journaling, taking classes in areas of interest, spiritual retreats, or attending religious services.<\/p>\n

Know Thyself.<\/strong>\u00a0Get to know yourself \u2014 identify your needs, preferences and values, and communicate them to the people around you. Knowing who you are, who you want to be and where your boundaries lie supports you to engage in positive relationships with people who have similar interests and values, and can relate to you while encouraging your growth.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Criticize, Judge or Blame.<\/strong>\u00a0 People can easily get caught up in self-critical thinking, which perpetuates low self-esteem, contributes to depression and anxiety, and inhibits social interaction.\u00a0 No one wants to be judged, criticized or blamed, and if those dynamics are present, it can indicate an unhealthy, and potentially abusive, relationship.<\/p>\n

Own Up to Your Part.<\/strong>\u00a0 In every relationship, there are two people involved and each contributes to any situation that comes up, whether positive or negative. Take responsibility for yourself in disagreements or conflict by using \u201cI\u201d language and don\u2019t push all the blame onto the other person. When an individual argues for the sake of being \u201cright\u201d rather than trying to understand the other side, the other person may feel invalidated or unheard. This can result in resentment, further conflict, and the eventual end of the relationship.<\/p>\n

Rekindle old friendships and nurture relationships with people who are respectful, positive, and supportive.\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0No human being is perfect. Everyone gets caught up in the challenges of daily life at times, and rekindling old relationships that have been positive ones in the past is a great way to strengthen your social support system. Maintaining friendships with individuals who respect, love, and accept you for who you are is crucial to our social wellness.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be a flake!\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0Be mindful of the commitments you make and keep them. Know your limitations and don\u2019t spread yourself too thin. Before making a commitment, be sure that you can realistically meet that expectation, taking into account any prior commitments and self-care.<\/p>\n

Appreciate Yourself and Others.<\/strong>\u00a0 Giving more energy to positives than negatives helps to keep us happier, healthier, and more hopeful. Regularly acknowledging the positive qualities you see in yourself and paying genuine compliments to others you care about feels good all the way around. The power of positive thinking can go a long way!<\/p>\n

Here are a few suggested activities that will support you in cultivating social wellness\u2014use these as a starting point to inspire your own ideas!<\/p>\n